Present and Communication Methods

This was originally written in 2014...

I have spent the last year struggling to be more present with those around me. I realized that our many modes of communication are not equal in "Presentness." I developed another goal to use the mode of conversation that allowed me to be most present at that moment.

There are three main modes of communication listed from most "Presentness" to the least:

Face to face

Voice to voice

Screen to screen

Within face to face, there are options.  There is nothing like sitting one on one looking into the eyes of those you are talking to. Almost as good, our technological age allows us to be face to face using video conferencing. Face to face allows you see facial expressions, body language, and hear tone.

When face to face is not possible, voice to voice is the next best option. Generally, voice to voice means a phone call. Phone calls allow you to hear people's words and tone.

When voice to voice is not possible

Face to Face

In person

Video Conference

Voice to Voice

Screen to Screen

Email

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